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    Hi-ho, Hi-ho, Off to Kroger I Go

    It’s that time of the week again.

    Time to make the grocery list, sort through the coupons, and trek to the store.

    Ugh.

    I’m not quite sure why I dread this weekly chore. I like food. I like shopping. Why don’t I like food shopping?

    It might have something to do with the total of my bill. More specifically, paying four dollars for a box of Corn Flakes. But since I don’t farm, have no desire to do so, and support farmers of all sorts, I can’t begrudge those four dollars.

    (Okay, a little, but not too much.)

    I think it has more to do with decisions. Because although I’m a planner, and dutifully make a shopping list every week, with every meal planned out, I’m a poor follow-througher.

    Faced with aisles and aisles of choice, I waffle. Do I get the Keebler cookies? Or the Nabisco? Butternut bread? Wonder? Oscar Meyer, Hebrew National? Pepsi? Coke? Orville Redenbacher…is there any other choice? Really?

    And I honestly do plan out what my family will eat every night for the week. Now ask me how often we eat what I plan.

    That would be not often.

    Like I said, I’m a poor follow-througher. What sounds good while I’m making the list might not sound so good the day I’m supposed to make the meal. Or there’s nights when schedules are crazy and we simply “fend.” Which pretty much means every man, woman, kid for themselves.

    Oh, and there’s the occasional mystery meal. When I’ll pull out the dusty cookbook, root through it, and essentially use my poor family as guinea pigs, Every “What’s for supper?” is answered with “Mystery meal.” There’s always much trepidation as we gather around the kitchen table on these nights.

    And that’s why I tolerate grocery shopping.

    No, not the trepidation (though I find that kind of amusing). The gathering. The whole family seated, and eating together, sharing bits of their daily lives over the food I shopped for.

    So, the moral of this blog? (You know I have to do it, even as cliché as its become!)

    Grocery shopping bill: outrageous.
    Dinner time with my family: priceless.

    If I keep that in mind, then grocery shopping doesn’t seem so bad.

    ~heather

    17 Responses to “Hi-ho, Hi-ho, Off to Kroger I Go”

    1. I liked this. Nice way of putting a routine chore into perspective.

      by Laura on September 25th, 2006 at 7:12 am

    2. My hubby insisted we go shopping yesterday. TOGETHER. Need I say more?

      by Debbie on September 25th, 2006 at 7:13 am

    3. Laura, it is routine, isn’t it? But y’know, I’d rather do it than starve! :)

      by Heather on September 25th, 2006 at 11:14 am

    4. LOL, Debbie. No you don’t!

      by Heather on September 25th, 2006 at 11:15 am

    5. I finally got to prepare the Sunday meal yesterday. I really wanted to try the mashed potatoes recipe from Alton Brown (Isn’t he cool?). It turned out great, and my wife loved me for it. I’d like to do it every day and so would she. But ya gots kids. You do the best you can. If you all sit at the same table almost every day, you’re way ahead of the curve. Whether they show it or not, your kids will remember the family time at the dinner table. Now if I can get them to reply with more than “good” when I ask them how school went…

      by Ron Estrada on September 25th, 2006 at 11:17 am

    6. Ron, my family sits down to dinner every night and we play a game. We take turns and everyone has to say the best and worst things about their day. Before you know it, the conversation is flowing and the kids are trying to “one-up” each other. We usually end up laughing till the tears come.

      by debbie on September 25th, 2006 at 11:50 am

    7. Like Heather, I treasure mealtime with the family, too. My kids aren’t really kids anymore and all our schedules are hectic, but still, we try. Of course, when they were little, I had subtle ways of making mealtime “special.” Like on days they were really bad . . . have I mentioned that my kids hate stew? Well, any time they were nasty little buggers, I made stew for dinner. And they never caught on. I confessed this to my daughter not long ago who claims she is forever psychologically damaged!

      by Casey on September 25th, 2006 at 12:39 pm

    8. Ron, I bet you watch a lot of the food channel! I love their specials on food contests–you know, the best wedding cake, sugar sculpture, etc.

      I agree, the older the kids get, the harder it is to have everyone sit at the table together. Sometimes we eat at 5 pm, sometimes 9 pm. It’s a hassle, but it’s worth it.

      by Heather on September 25th, 2006 at 4:19 pm

    9. Debbie, enjoy this mealtime while it lasts! It gets soooo hard to coordinate when the kids get older and one’s going here, another there and you’re happy to get a hot dog stuffed into them! I like the best/worst part of the day. Though I’m trying to imagine my teen playing it! LOL. I’m with Ron on this one–if I get something other than “good” for my “how was school?” I’d be a happy mom.

      by Heather on September 25th, 2006 at 4:20 pm

    10. Casey, I love it!!! My kids hate stew too… I think I need to start doing this trick, psychological damage and all.

      by Heather on September 25th, 2006 at 4:21 pm

    11. But you know what … that grocery bill seems to be getting more outrageous than lately. We’re spending 25% more this year than we did a year and a half ago … and our income hasn’t inflated 25%!

      by spyscribbler on September 25th, 2006 at 5:04 pm

    12. Theo anticipated that this week’s blog would be “Heather’s Closet, Volume XII: Stuff Found on the Third Shelf”. While grateful for the respite, Theo fears that the next six weeks of Heather Blogs will feature such titles as “My Husband Will Eat Cheez Its”, “Link or Patty? A Sunday Breakfast Conundrum”, and “What, No Mustard?”

      by Theo Epstein on September 25th, 2006 at 5:44 pm

    13. Since soccer season is upon us and my husband is a soccer coach, that means we rarely get to sit down together. I really miss it. Once November rolls around I’ll be very happy to have our daily family supper again.

      by Judy on September 25th, 2006 at 8:48 pm

    14. Heather, I’m the one in my family to go shopping — otherwise, we have more than enough snacks to last a month and no meals!!!

      by Jeff on September 27th, 2006 at 4:48 am

    15. Spy, I agree. And it just keeps getting worse as my boys get older. Go figure.

      by Heather on September 27th, 2006 at 2:09 pm

    16. Judy, there’s just something about having everyone home at dinnertime, isn’t there? I hope soccer season flies by!

      by Heather on September 27th, 2006 at 2:10 pm

    17. ***otherwise, we have more than enough snacks to last a month and no meals!!!***

      Jeff, is there something wrong with that???????

      by Heather on September 27th, 2006 at 2:11 pm

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